Lobster " Mac n Cheese "

I I swore I'd never do a mac n cheese recipe! Let alone one with lobster in! Turns out I was wrong on both counts, it's become rather fashionable to have some kind of Mac n cheese on the menu, I've seen it done really well and I've seen it done extremely badly
I'm hoping that my version is at least done well and fantastically tasty!! It takes the already delicious Mac n cheese and turns it into a real dinner party winner, you can if you want use crab, and if you really want to knock your friends socks off?! Use both!! Totally over the top, but just awesome
This recipe I'm going to share with you guys will feed 4 people really well
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1 live lobster about 1.5kg
4 garlic cloves
50g of butter
Good pinch of saffron
1 good size onion
4 anchovy fillets (optional)!
Pinch of cayenne pepper
200ml of white wine (if wouldn't drink it! Don't cook with it!!!)
50g of plain flour
1.2ltrs of full fat milk
Good teaspoon of English mustard
Good teaspoon of Dijon mustard
500g of dried macaroni
100g mature cheddar cheese
100g Parmesan cheese
100g breadcrumbs
100g of crispy smoked bacon or pancetta(optional but I highly recommend it!!!)
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